Get comfortable giving each other pleasure with your clothes still on more or less, with less and less over time. I waited till my wedding night to allow myself to be touched by a man. The anabolic energy of woman may be said to desire avidly the catabolic force of man as the completion of being. Oh and Amen to the post about vibrators. Good point on the birth control. Not flavored too much sugar! There is, in fact, no sign whatever which allows even an expert positively to say that a woman has or has not suffered the approaches of one of the opposite sex.
Advice for a virgin on her wedding night | Offbeat Bride
To the Virgins: Sisterly Advice for Your Wedding Night
Were there things that were good? One thing that I worry might be misleading is assuming since he is not a virgin he knows what he is doing. Mature Guy Adores Young Holes. My only addition would be to do things that make you comfortable.
Aside from the obvious of sharing our sex with each other, my dreams included my beautiful new bride going into the bathroom, making me wait far too long as she primps and preens, dresses in a sexy nightie, applies the right amount of makeup and perfume before emerging and presenting herself to me so I can undo everything she just did. With each stroke, I could feel the head of my penis touching her cervix. Look at all the new parts and appreciate them. It's because there is a learning curve when you are introduced to another persons body in such an intimate fashion. That is so admirable.
I think one thing is missing from this advice post: Right down to the kitchen utensil recommendation. The week's best photojournalism. Congrats on holding out so long! I have a great job that God's blessed me with, no debt, and am in a strong position to provide material needs to a spouse. There is, indeed, another kind of shame.